As a mortgage broker I come across people struggling to buy a home almost every day. Their struggles tend to fall into one of three categories:

  1. money
  2. knowing what they want
  3. competition

If you’re struggling with money, here are some options to help:

  • set up a spending & savings plan
  • get a side hustle, save 100% of the earnings
  • ask for help from a family member
  • team up with a friend and buy together (with a legal exit agreement between you)
  • change your thinking and buy somewhere cheaper, further out or as an investment.

If you’re struggling with knowing what you want:

  • write a list of your must-haves and nice-to-haves
  • go to some opens and see what you like and what you hate – start your list there
  • think about the next 5-10 years and what you will need then as well as now
  • spend time in the neighbourhoods that you’re considering – at different times of the day and check out how safe, comfortable and convenient it is

If you’re struggling with competition:

  • get pre-approval on your finance so you’re ready as soon as you find that property
  • organise a conveyancer so they’re ready to look over any contracts you ask for
  • have a building inspector organised so that you can be reassured with an independent professional report
  • get friendly with the agents – your offer will always speak louder than words, but them knowing that you’re a serious buyer and a nice respectful person will also go a long way. We always want the nice guys to win!

If you’ve been through a home buying struggle, what was it and how did you overcome it?